10 Reasons You Should Jump Into Full-Time RVing While Your Kids Are Still Little

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Full-time RVing is becoming steadily more popular among the younger generation and for good reason. It’s awesome!! However, there is still a stigma attached to living in an RV when you have kids. People like to assume that you are either irresponsible with money or nuts. Those assumptions are completely unwarranted and probably fueled by the big green jealousy monster. Living in an RV as a young adult with a family is incredible! Here are the top 10 reasons why.

1. Travel!
If you ditch that mortgage (that you can barely afford…you know it’s true), the possibilities of your living conditions are limitless. Let’s say you can’t or don’t want to quit that job that tethers you to a specific area. That still doesn’t keep you stuck in one spot in one boring little neighborhood with the same irritating neighbors for the next 30+ years. You can park your house at a campground in the woods, near the ocean, or maybe even just in a little nearby, country town. If you decide you don’t like it you can just pick up your house and move on. On the other hand, if you are trying to quit your desk job and make a living from home, you can go anywhere you want! You can really SHOW your kids the beauty that this country (or maybe even Canada and Mexico) has to offer. Most families only get to go explore the country once or twice a year and it’s usually only for a week or two at a time, in one area. Imagine taking your kids all over the country at your own pace. Moving into an RV while they are still filled with that natural sense of adventure can provide a positive influence if your are focusing on raising them to be the type of adults who know how to chase down their dreams and make them come true.

2. Saving Money
The amount of money that you save, even just monthly, on living expenses is insane. Seriously! Monthly camping fees are almost always full hook-up which means they include sewer, trash, electric, water, and free Wi-Fi. Believe it or not, these monthly camp fees average out at about half of what you would pay for all of that in a one-bedroom apartment. Prices always vary depending on the area and how many other amenities they offer. Many of them are “family friendly” so they may offer a pool and/or a playground. That money that you are saving by not being tied to a lease somewhere could be falling into your kid’s college fund or your retirement account or even just on experiencing the biggest and best attractions all over the country.

3. Own Your Home
If you have never owned your own place, this is an opportunity to do it without losing your shirt or signing away your soul on a 30-year mortgage. It may seem like a big leap to take your savings, or sell your current house, and buy an RV to live in, but if you do it’s going to be the best financial decision you have ever made. Trying to become financially stable enough to own something when you are young is challenging especially when you have kids, but if you do your research, you can find something that fits your needs and spend the same or less than you would on a down payment for a traditional home to raise your family in.

 4. Eliminates Hoarding
We all know how terribly easy it is to just keep filling your house with stuff that you think you need until you put it away and forget about it for 5 years. Downsizing into a space that will most likely be a fourth of what you were living in forces you to let go of those 8 boxes of old Christmas decorations, clothes that fit you when you were 16, and books that you didn’t even like but kept anyway. This is especially beneficial for your kids because they will be growing up in a home where you keep what you need unless it is super-duper special and you have a definite place for it. Little kids can get so easily attached to things and that can be a lifelong habit that just worsens with age.

5. Less to Clean
Keeping your house clean when you are working a busy schedule and raising happy kids can be a major trigger for stress. The bigger your house, the more you feel like you spend all of your free time cleaning and if you don’t do what needs to be done you feel like you are living in a trash heap. When you are residing in a 400 square foot (or smaller) space, you can clean your entire house top to bottom in less than 2 hours! Some people spend that just trying to keep their kitchen in order. Instead of spending every single weekend cleaning your house, you will find that all of a sudden you have loads of free time to spend with your kids or your hobbies.

6. Less “Screen Time”
An appreciation for nature is becoming obsolete with today’s generation of youngsters. They have their little faces pressed up to any screen they can get their hands on and hardly ever want to go outside. What kind of adults are they going to grow up to be if they do not have any attachment to the awesomeness of this planet? This type of lifestyle is more likely to inspire your kids to grow up loving physical, outdoor activities. RVs have TV’s, of course, but you will want to spend more time breathing in the pine sap air when your living quarters are smaller.

7. Closer to Nature
Living in an RV allows you to choose your background and change it at any time. This is a great way to go for people who have a passion for outdoor hobbies like hiking, biking, and fishing. Many full-timers have said that they made this lifestyle change in order to be able to make those activities more of a priority in their lives. It can also awaken a passion in you for something that you never thought you would be interested in like photography or art and if you are the type of person that loves to camp, it allows you to camp every day of the week. Not to mention it will give you an excuse to have s’mores and a bonfire as many times a week as you can handle.

8. Sibling Bonding
Now a move like this will require your kids to share a room and that may seem unfair at first, but you will find that transitioning them from having their own room to sharing with their siblings usually inspires them to bond in a new way. If you shared a room as a kid, you may already know how that feels. Getting your kids to bond in today’s technological world is a challenge, but in a smaller space, they will spend more time playing and making decisions together when they normally would have been doing their own thing.

9. Problem-Solving Skills
This may seem like it’s pointed at your kids, but this is something that will improve for the whole family. Once again returning to the aspect of small space, you have to work out your disagreements as they occur due to the fact that you don’t have many places to go when you are upset. This may seem a little scary at first, but it is a very good thing. Too often people, adults especially, will walk away from their problems without solving them because it is easier, but that leaves behind a residual anger that can sometimes be unleashed on those we love the most. Making the time to fix your problems instead of bottling them up is a skill that you will want your kids to learn early. As we all know, it’s harder to change your habits as an adult.

10. Family Togetherness
The most important reason is the reason why we do any of the things that we, as parents, do: to raise happy kids. Making the move into a smaller space eliminates that habit of splitting up into different rooms to do whatever we want. When your house consists of mom & dad’s room, kid’s room, and living space, you will almost be forced to spend the majority of your time as a unit. Creating long-lasting, loving bonds is the best thing you can do for your family. Some families really appreciate the aspect of “personal space” and that IS important especially for the parents, but the average person’s idea of how much space they need is excessive. Don’t go assuming that by moving into an RV you will be living on top of each other, however. Selecting an RV that has a sufficient amount of space per person is all part of the buying process, but we tend to think that the biggest house we can afford will make us happy and usually that is untrue.

So if you have been lustfully eyeing RVs online, but putting the idea of full-timing on the backburner because of your young family, give it some more thought. Any changes we make in life are scary at first especially if we spend too much time calculating the negatives when we could be planning for positives. Take a chance! Your family could find ultimate happiness living the RV lifestyle.

How to Set Healthy Rules to Live By

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When I first decided that I wanted to try to lose some weight, I was 60 pounds over my pre-baby#1 weight and had no idea where to start. So, of course, I started with Pinterest. I researched like a mad woman. I was surprised to find that I knew almost nothing about healthy eating and working out. I kind of thought it was a no-brainer, if I eat less, I will lose weight. Well, growing up in a family of big meat and pasta fans, I never really learned how to portion control or structure my meals without bread or pasta. There is a wealth of valuable information on Pinterest about how to eat healthy, but I still struggle with making good choices on a daily basis. The biggest issue I had in the beginning though was following the “diet” guidelines. I tried tons of different diets and just couldn’t stick to them. They were too complex and the cooking was too advanced for me. It wasn’t until 6 months into my journey (and starting over 6 or 7 times) that I realized the problem was all of the plans I was following. They weren’t working for me because they were made to fit someone else. It was then that I sat down and made my own plans. Now everytime I start to get bored with my routine or fall off the wagon, I change my rules, but I always follow the same guidelines.

The plan I follow is simple. I always set only 10 rules, this way I don’t get overwhelmed with all of them.  I make the first 4 rules easy health rules that I have trouble following like “drink 8 glasses of water a day”, “veggies and fruits every day”, or “workout at least 3x a week”. These are more of a reminder of what I should be doing. Then I set 3 rules that target my weaknesses. Some examples are “no second helpings”, “stay away from white bread”, “no ramen noodles”. This is where I usually address unhealthy habits I have been letting myself fall into. The last 3 rules I focus on are challenges, a few I have done in the past were “no alcohol”, “work out 6 days a week”, and “run 3 times a week”.

IMG_3770The part about setting your own rules that is the most important is posting them up somewhere in your house where you will see them all the time. I put mine on my fridge or my pantry door, but in the past, I have put them up on my motivation board too. If you do not have a motivation board yet, you should consider making one. Even in my tiny home, I have one set up by my front door so I see it right away when I step out of my bedroom and when I am walking out of my house. The picture to the left is my motivation board, I print off inspiring things I find online and change them up every couple of months.  I have also seen people who post their healthy rules in their planners, journals, and the lock screen of their phones.

I truly believe that taking the time to create and write down your own rules can be the turning point of your journey like it was for me. Living a healthy lifestyle is tough, but it can be done and moderation of unhealthy things is easier when you have a plan to follow.

Journaling <3

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Just as a little background, from 2005-2014, I was a diligent, obsessive, crazy Journal-addict. My journals kept me sane through Jr. High and High School and I love them dearly. In fact, I have begun backing them all up digitally (scanning them onto the computer one by one) and keeping them on a flash drive in my firebox because they mean that much to me. However, when I had my second child, I kind of let everything fall by the wayside because I was so busy taking care of two kids a year and half apart. Those 2 years that I only wrote sporadically really hurt me emotionally and as of a month ago it was really starting to show. So along with rededicating myself to health and fitness and this blog I turned my everyday planner into a “bullet Journal” of sorts. I have only been at it for like two weeks, but I can already see the 20160101_194810difference in my day to day outlook. I like how the bullet journal concept prompts you to make more lists and organize things more efficiently. When I was journaling in the past, I was keeping everything in there, but it was all spread out and kind of hard to find sometimes because as the days would pass I would leave those pages alone and 20160101_195228continue writing things down as they came to me. I am really enjoying having things divided into sections and then having the middle part hold my daily planner pages and journal pages. I absolutely adore being actively productive and seeing all that hard work laid out on paper. Here is just a small sample of how things have been going with that lately.20160101_194839